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In the ever-evolving world of coliving, the community thrives on the rituals and routines that bring everyone together. These rituals create moments of connection, reflection, and shared experiences. As more colivings emerge, so do the unique traditions that each space fosters, some we love, and some… well, we could do without. Recently, Ali Greene sparked a conversation in our community, asking about everyone’s favorite coliving rituals—and what they could live without. Here’s what our community had to say:
Rituals we love
One of the most cherished rituals in colivings is the Family Meeting, typically held on Sundays or Mondays. These meetings allow everyone to gather, get updates, and connect with new arrivals. Maria Hansen mentions how much she loves the co-creation of activities for the week and being introduced to new members, bringing an exciting start to the week.
Skillshares have also become a beloved tradition for many, where colivers come together to share passions and talents. As César put it, "Sharing what one is passionate about and learning things you didn’t expect to learn is a great feeling." These moments of learning from one another create deep bonds and help foster a sense of belonging within the group.
And then, of course, there’s food! Potluck dinners are a standout for many, including Ali Greene and Ramon Morcillo, who both appreciate the informal, intimate nature of smaller, communal meals. Potlucks allow for deeper conversations, spontaneity, and the joy of trying different dishes made by fellow colivers. As Ramon fondly remembers, making crepes at Château was a special experience that brought everyone together over food and fun.
Another heartwarming tradition comes from Jeanne, who introduced us to the Love Notes Ritual at Château. At the end of each month, colivers write little notes of appreciation for one another, which are then read during their travels. It’s a sweet and thoughtful way to say goodbye and keep memories alive.
And let’s not forget the Sunday Pancakes that Morgane Oléron loves—a cozy, delicious ritual that turns lazy Sunday mornings into something everyone looks forward to.
Rituals We Could Do Without
While many rituals bring joy, there are a few we wouldn’t mind leaving behind. One universal pain point seems to be life admin tasks, like turning off lights in empty rooms and playing the never-ending game of "Guess Who Left Their Cup in the Sink." Morgane and Maria both expressed their frustration with the small yet unavoidable tasks of communal living, which, while necessary, often fall into the hands of the same people.
Leftover fridges can also become a dreaded aspect of communal living, as Ramon humorously points out: “I don’t like the game of ‘Let’s leave the leftovers and food from old colivers in the fridge!’” Managing shared fridges can be a challenge, though Ali sees it as an opportunity for a Leftover Challenge, where colivers make gourmet meals from two-day-old food—a playful way to tackle the inevitable.
And then, of course, there are goodbyes, which Jeanne admits she still doesn’t like, a sentiment that resonates deeply in spaces where connections are formed quickly, but departures are inevitable.
Final Thoughts
Rituals are the heartbeat of coliving spaces. They are what bring people together, create memories, and, at times, cause some mild frustrations. Whether it's a skillshare session, a potluck dinner, or simply turning off the lights at the end of the day, the balance of joy and responsibility makes coliving unique.
A huge thank you to Ali Greene, César, Maria Hansen, Morgane Oléron, Jeanne, and Ramon Morcillo for sharing their insights and experiences, and for contributing to the ever-evolving world of coliving rituals.
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